I found the following quote, which opens a whole new level of realization.
"The person who cares the least has the most control." -- Anonymous
It's a totally different topic, but isn't funny how control issues were causes of some of my anxiety problems? And realization of issues controls the anxiety? And it also helped thinking that someone cared?
Is it another vicious circle? Would I have never had anxiety if I simply didn't care?
Ehhh... it doesn't work that way.... but by being circuitous, it still makes sense.
In general, the person who cares the least in a relationship has the most power. -- Reinhold Niebohr, a German psychologist
(Originally posted February 11, 2005 10:22 AM)